I have searched the forums high and low and have found older models of this vehicles explained however my connector has a a different color set of wires. I am willing to do this Radio shack style (splice wires and solder to RCA jacks), but if there is a reasonably priced OEM connector that would be even better.

the attachments were not working for me so here are links

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