From the young one on here lol of course a young guy will think that way. At some point you grow out of that for some reason. Not really sure why though it just happens at some point

 

gettin old is mandatory, growing up is optional

 

Hey dude i have watched countless members of my family get married... and my brother is about to be the next (dude im living with) ... so i have a reason for saying that lol.

 

so my sister picked me up a fake ring to give her and I am going to leave the real one at home and give it to her when we come back. I think it's better off this way. Her parents didn't think the proposal idea was good, cause what if the ring falls or whatever
24 hours and we will be away from this cold and sitting in Jamaica

 

have fun and good luck, hope all goes well in your favor

 

thanks JP

 

JayDee...wait! How old are you???? Just make sure you are absolutely right about this! Lots of young married couples divorce by the second year..Yes it's just a stat but it's true and have seen quite a few of my friends get married and divorce not too long after that...I know that marriage is supposed to be a special bond between two people but nowadays it's also a big financial bond/responsibility especially when you get into having "joint" accounts, buying a home, having kids, buying a van LOL, having credit cards together, etc. etc....I do finance at our dealership and have seen so many people's credit ruined because of divorce...They can't buy steam off a hot pile of poop in the snow cuz their credit was crushed by their divorce...Not trying to sound real negative but I just want you to make sure you are doing the right thing and lookin out for ya a bit...I hope everything works out well for the two of you and hope you both are happy for the rest of your lives...Good luck andcongrats!

 

yeah I know of all the stats and what not. I am going to be 30 in feb and her 28 in march. I really love this girl. She is supportive of me and has been through a lot with me. We have been together almost 3 years now, and she is definitely the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. I was actually engaged before, back in um 01, and yeah that never made it to marriage. The girl was a psycho, total facad(sp) she was putting on. This one is different though. Thanks for the wishes and for looking out for me

 

That's cool man...I'm 30 as well and was close to being engaged twice...once I was only two weeks away from it and I was 23 at the time and just graduated college then..She broke up with me two weeks before the day I was going to propose which would have been on Easter Sunday of that year...I look back on it now and I thank God that I didn't get married back then because I was nowhere near ready for it then and would have made a huge mistake..The girl was right, just not the time I guess.

 

alight guys and girls. I have another hour left of work. And then we leave this afternoon. I will be back in a week.