I am not sure if my level is too high or not and if Im checking it right.

Bring to temp, shift through gears and leave in N then I check it. Fluid way up the stick. Ive tried taking someone out, still does it.

I dont know how much is in there! As long as I shift through gears levels way up stick.

 

If it is high up the stick then there is too much in it. If you wipe the stick, near the end you will maximum mark.

You are correct in your way of checking. Bring car up to normal running temp by driving. Select each gear for a couple of seconds then put in N or P and remove stick, wipe, and re insert for 5 seconds. Pull out and read level