hey im sorry to hear that. Just keep your head up and realize that there are several other fish in the sea, and as hard as it is to swallow since you have been with her for so long, but at least you didnt have kids involved, and also all women arent b*tches. lol

 

man I want a HDTV!! lol. I'd take the cars too.. and this is def the time of year to get a bike since prices go down for winter.. lol. It sounds like you've cheered up about it a lil. It's hard to get used to the change but I think it's actually helped me learn alot.. My ex husband and I were together 4 years and married 2.. it was an adjustment but i'm stronger and more independent and got to take charge of everything I did for a while.. without worrying about someone else! I have an extra microwave.. where you live lol?

 

I live in marshall, tx. I am upset about the divorce but im trying to keep looking on the positive side of things. It is going to feel very weired to come home to a empty house everyday, that part is already starting to get to me. But i have no doubt it will work out in the end.

 

we all hope it does.....good luck man

 

Thanks, I apreciate everyones support.

 

well i'm in sc or i'd probly just give you my extra microwave[8D].. of coarse you have support! If you ever need anyone to talk to for serious you're more than welcome to message me.. and probably anyone else around here lol.. that's why i love these forums I hung out with my friends like EVERYDAY after I got seperated.. they really got me thru it.. then the rest is easy.. it's just the adjustment that takes the most getting through!!

 

That is very true. I dont know what i would do if i did not have my friends around here to help. And again thanks to everyone on this forum for your support.

 

I'm sorry to hear about the divorce, but not all women are the same. I'm going on my 25 aniversary next month, been married since 19, and I feel very lucky. She is still around the same size, beautiful, doesn't bitch unless it is really necessary, can drive a stick, civilized me, bore me 4 beautiful daughters, cooks better than most anyone I know, does not gripe when I really want something and go get it or work on it (Prostreet Big Block '72 RS Camaro), and most important... knows when not to say anything. There are good women out there, sometimes it just takes a little longer to find them.

 

That is very true. I thought she was the right one for me but we just didnt have anything in common, which caused us to fight constantly. It seemed at times she had never heard of the word compromise, it was either her way or nothing at all. As time passes imfeel more relieved to be out of that relationship and i am ready to move on to bigger and better things.

 

Please read what im about to say very carefully, as its not a bashing post. In my short, but complicated life i have realized a few things. ALL women are the same, just some traits are more prominent in others. Bottom line, it all boils down to the same things. Its the same with guys too. Only, we are easily pleased. A quick ******* and you can have a guy do what ever the **** you want for the next few hours. All guys have a little ******* in them, just like all women have a little bitch in them. The only thing that sets them apart is their reasons for acting like that, or not acting like that. One reason that i see is love, or at least the desire to love. Some of you may or may not have noticed (you know who you are lol) that i have been a softy ****er lately. Yes, a chick is involved lol.

Anyways, everyone is a bitch/*******, only we choose to put that part of us dormant for a particular reason or another.

Anyone agree?

Do what makes you happy man, thats whats important. Nobody can take that away. It might do you a little good to know that she is ****ing around (if thats the case). I know when my ex dumped me for no aparent reason it really messed me up, because i thought it was a problem with me. Then i found out it was because she had another piece of **** waiting i felt instantly better. At least i know it was her own selfish behavior that caused it and not me. Don't know if that would work for you.

Im a firm believer in karma. As i said up there some place ^^ i met a girl. The very next day afteri met her, my ex talks to me for the first time in almost a year. Guess what? She is worried that the guy she dumped me for is going to do the exact same thing that she did to me, to her. WHOOPS! So now i think they are split, she is miserable, and has nobody. I almost felt like saying it, but i have a heart so i calmed her down and gave her a little advice etc... dont ask me why, i still dont know lol. So she got what was coming to her, and while im happy, shes ****ing miserable.

So everythings for a reason, everything will balance out. In the mean time, buy a big *** TV, PS3, XBOX360, a bad *** car, and keep your head up. If you need a chick just let me know lol

Sorry for the essay.... lol