um no....having a kid doenst ruin your life...your choices can ruin your life...i personaly know several women that have had kids real young...my girlfriends sister is 24 and shes pregnant with her 3rd child...but she will never say her life is ruined...she loves life. having a child doesnt ruin anyones life.

 

not at all... unless you let it.

 

thank you.

 

Hahaha im not discusing, just like you im giving up my opinion everyone has their own point of view on things like you said, thats why there are so many sahdes of grey ... haha wow, 5 pages, i thought we would barely make it to 3

 

Do you have kids??

Didn't you have a scare recently...do you think your future might be a little different if you were having a baby. If not yours, surely your/her parents lives would be affected...and not for the better.

 

Yes i did and i will tell you right now me and ash would have never though of abortion. We have places to go if need be. We would make it work just like her sister did.

 

I never implied that she would get an abortion. Just stating that your life would take a completely different path than the one you are on now. Where would you go? Relatives, adoption agency, on welfare...surely you don't think two 15/16 year olds are capable of raising and properly caring for a baby without a lot of help...

I'm just playing devils advocate.

 

abortion is straight up MURDER!!!! if a gurl dont want the baby give it upfor ADOPTION!!! NOBODY has the right to decide if a human being should live besides GOD!!! if ur killing in war then ur killing for ur life and others, against people who want to kill you!!! dont you think if that baby that is gettin murdered could fight back, he or she would?????

 

AMEN BROTHA!.....

 

yea amen to adoption.... just get pregnant and put em up for adoption... theres only thousands of kids that have no home as it is, why not add more... and yes, having a kid CAN ruin lives... rarely does, and just cuz ur young dont mean it will. my sister had a kid at age 17 and that child i know for a fact will live a great life... im not sayin it will to everyone, but there are situations where i think abortion is best route... i disagree with adoption a hell of alot but lets not go into that... haha