No your getting the wrong end. I highly doubt there is ANY sexual motivation in the conversation. I mean come on the guy is a virgin and prolly gets a boner everytime he hears the word sex. I doubt the guy has any intentions of tryin to take the chick from him and i highly doubt she has any interest in him what so ever. Although i do agree if she valued your peice of mind she wouldnt think twice to comply with such a simple request.

 

I can enter this conversation with experience. I met my wife online by accident. To make a really long and complex story short, I ended up moving to CA (3000 miles away...lol) and marrying the woman that I started chatting with just because she said hello by accident- I was actually in a gaming website. We have been married for 4 years and have a 2 year old daughter. I do not regret it for a moment. Did either of us expect it? No Was her current b/f asking why she was talking with me like you are asking your fiance? yes. I'm not saying your fiance is going to do this, but it happened to me. I don't distrust my wife at all, but would I let her chat about sex with someone on line? NOT A CHANCE IN HELL! It's just silly to think that is okay in any sort of serios relationship- but I have a pretty conservative view. She is placing her need to "play" above your comfort and needs- that doesn't sit well with me, she needs to respect you- especially being that you two are engaged to be married. Perhaps you may want to read her what the wedding vows are and make sure she is okay with them. I don't mean to be harsh and I am a very fair husband, but it doesn't sound like she is treating you with the respect a marriage needs and deserves. Some will say "Well you need to trust her, she will do the right thing" I reply that if this is an example of her judgement, are you really sure of that?" I'm not trying to attack your fiance, but with the very limited negative information we have on her, this is my conclusion.

 

Totally agree.... but.... where you a virgin? LOL

 

its not about being a virgin, its about respecting your partner.

 

So because someone is 3000 miles away and says he is a virgin you would believe it? I sure as hell wouldn't.

 

Ite... true that

 

AGREED

 

i dont get involved in relationship issues

 

haha, way to stay out of it engineer.... well i think most of us and the poll is leaning your way... do the right thing bro, but its still your choice remember.